Third step: Learn to Lose, Even If You Are Right

Differences between two people in a marriage will always exist, what will help you remain is for one person to give in. And in most cases, that person has to be the wife. Because men will hardly give in, this is human nature, he is in charge, the leader, and biblically speaking, man was not created from woman, but it was the woman who was created from the rib of man, in other words, man's position is and always will be the head. Often women, who do not have a daily relationship with God, lose the opportunity to avoid fights, arguments, unnecessary disagreements, just because they want to be in the same position as the man. Not that a woman should be stepped on, humiliated and remain silent, no... But maintain her position which should be: submissive.
Being submissive leads us to take actions that will help us in our daily relationship:
1) An important rule: Treat your spouse the way you want to be treated (see Luke 6:31).
2) Treat your husband the same way or better than others: Be as kind to your spouse as you are to strangers or to your coworkers.
3) Do what is asked: Consider what your husband or wife asks you to do or not to do. If in doubt, ask. But always do whatever is asked of you.

Love is not irritated under stress. Small problems do not become major conflicts. The truth is that love does not get angry or hurt unless there is a legitimate and righteous reason under God.
A loving husband remains calm and patient, showing mercy and control of his temper. Anger and violence are out of the question. A loving wife is not too sensitive or moody, but maintains control over her emotions. She prefers to be a flower among the thorns and responds calmly when facing difficult situations.
If you are in love, you are reason for joy, not pain. Ask yourself: "Am I a gentle breeze or a storm waiting to happen?"

"Apply your heart to instruction and your ears to words of knowledge." Proverbs 23:12