Learn To Admire

In the beginning, every relationship is full of charm, dating is a beautiful and fascinating stage, our thoughts fly high, especially when we have defined this is the one person we want for our future, we cannot find any flaws, we only see their qualities. But when marriage becomes a daily routine, it is inevitable to see the flaws and there are couples who spend 24 hours a day together, as is the case for my husband and I, it is rare for us not to be together.
Even when we see the flaws, it is necessary to learn to admire our beloved one.
We must highlight a few points:
* Use words that show your love and admiration in order to maintain that initial charm
* Always flatter them, use positive words to give them strength every day
* Strengthen your marriage every day, thru friendship, companionship and understanding
* It is very important to resolve any dispute as quickly as possible to avoid the lack of communication
* Dialogue is very important in a marriage, always set aside time to talk, ask her how the work day went, ask if you can help with anything, any difficulties they encountered, etc ...
* Admire their talent, beauty, behavior, etc ... in other words, admire the qualities your spouse has.
* Try to think more about their positive attributes than their negative ones -
Wasting your time thinking about their insults, past mistakes, bad habits or bad decisions will only lead to a decay of your marriage, the person who has the presence of God will, in these times, make the right direction to act and avoid these thoughts, using wisdom and spiritual judgment to overcome all their differences.

“Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.” (Ephesians 5:22-24)

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.” (Ephesians 5:25-28)