Sunday, July 10, 2011

Enemies of Marriage


Enemies of Marriage
Marriage is made up of a series of elements, joys, sorrows, successes and great victories. But when you think about how you want your marriage to be, the last thing that comes to mind is the image of a battlefield. However, there are some battles that you should be more than willing to face. Unfortunately, marriage has many external enemies. They appear in different ways and use different strategies, and certainly conspire only to destroy your marriage, unless you know how to stop them.
Some of these enemies are smart and attractive, with the sole purpose of undermining the love and appreciation for each other. Others try to seduce your heart, fueling it with fantasies and unrealistic comparisons. This is a battle we must wage and win every day, for example:

* The Internet and television can be productive and enjoyable additions in your life, but they can also bring destructive elements and deprive you of precious moments with your family
* Long working hours, which keep you apart from each other during precious hours. This will eventually destroy the couple who will never have time for one another, or will always be tired
* Relationships with the opposite sex - Beware! Friends of the opposite sex can cause jealousy, the best thing to do is walk away, because how can a "so called" friend be the cause for arguments?
* Wives - Beware not to be led by television, magazines and other media that is often a reality that does not exist and you may end up making improper and unfair comparisons with your husband
* Family - When a man and woman marry, they leave their family, their father and mother form another family. It is very important to have balance and to love your family, but never let it interfere in the couple's marriage